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Showing posts with label life and love. Show all posts

Kissing History


Pucking Up Through The Ages
Kissing: the intimate act used to express feelings o  f love, passion, affection, respect, friendship, greetings and many more. A kiss can vary widely in different cultures, for example, a kiss can be used in formal greetings, or ritual and traditional formalities, or for religious reasons, as well as being used as an intimate expression of love. But where did kissing come from? How has the act evolved over time?

Ancient Indian Kissing
The earliest evidence of kissing came from Indian Vedic Sanskrit texts that date back to around 1500 BC. In these texts there are descriptions of people kissing. However, while the texts don’t mention the word ‘kiss’, there are references to ‘licking’ and ‘drinking moisture of the lips’, which historians believe refers to the act of intimate kissing. There is also an epic Indian poem called ‘Mahabharata’ that describes the act of kissing on the lips as a sign of affection. The ‘Mahabharata’ was originally passed down orally for several hundred years, before being written down and recorded properly around 350 AD. It was also around this point in time when the Vatsyayana Kamasutra (better known as the Kama Sutra) was established. Considered to be the standard work on human sexual behaviors, the Karma Sutra included an entire section on the different ways of lavishing kisses on a lover.



Kissing doesn’t really surface in the Western world until the days of the Roman Empire, where Romans would use kisses to greet family and friends, as well as express feelings of love, and to pay their respects to ruler’s by kissing their hand. The Romans had three differentcategories for kissing, ‘Osculum’ was a kiss on the cheek, ‘Basium’ was a kiss on the lips, and ‘Savolium’ was a deep kiss. The Romans are responsible for beginning out modern day traditions when it comes to kissing. In ancient Rome, a couple became betrothed by kissing passionately on the lips in front of a group of people. The term ‘sealed with a kiss’ also comes from ancient Rome, where were used like handshakes to seal legal and business agreements and even during political campaigns.
Religious Kissing History
In the early Christian Church, Christians would use kissing as a way to greet one another. This greeting, known as an ‘Osculum Pacis’, or holy kiss, was believed to transfer the spirit between the two people. It was also used to establish family bond between the members of the church and to strengthen the community, as well as separating Christians and non-Christians.
Kissing in the Middle Ages
In the Middle Ages, kissing was a demonstration of a person’s social standing.  Subjects of a King would kiss his ring, robe, hands or even the ground beneath his feet to show respect. This kind of respect was also shown toward the Pope. A kiss was also used as a greeting between feudal lords and vassals as a show of trust. It was also during this time that many men did not know how to read and write, so a kiss was used as a legal way to seal contracts, as it had been done in ancient Rome. An ‘X’ would be drawn on the line and kissed, making it legal. This symbol of a kiss has been carried over into modern day, with ‘X’ being written to represent a kiss.
During the Industrial Revolution, the kiss became replaced by the handshake as a form of agreement between to people when it came to legal and business matters. By 1872, Charles Darwin had theorized that due to the global diversity and popularity of kissing, humans must possess an innate desire to want to connect with others in this way. Darwin surmised that kissing is rooted deep within our evolutionary past, but is influenced by our social-cultural traditions, rules and customs.
The term “French kiss” came into the English language around 1923 as an insult towards the French culture which was thought to be overly concerned with sex. In France, it’s called a tongue kiss or soul kiss because if done right, it feels as if two souls are merging.
Kissing occurs in most cultures around the world today, but there are many different views on what is appropriate when it comes to displays of affection. In Middle Eastern countries public displays of affection, including holding hands, cuddling and kissing can be punishable by law. In some Asian countries, while not illegal, kissing is considered a private activity, and PDA is frowned upon.
Kissing Conclusion
Scientists, scholars and anthropologists are divided over whether kissing is a learned or instinctual behaviour. There are also many theories behind where kissing evolved from, including when mothers orally passed chewed food to their infants during the weaning period, or that kissing evolved from prospective mates sniffing each other’s pheromones to check for biological compatibility. Another theory suggests it was used to judge a person as a potential mate. Whatever the reason for the development of kissing, it has come through history as a symbol and expression of human feelings. 



5 Biggest Signs That He Is In Love With You

It is hard to tell at the beginning of a relationship if he likes you for real or not, but what’s even harder as the months go by is to tell is he is in love with you. Does he think you are the one? A man might give you mixed signals that’s for sure, one day he is totally romantic and treating you like a queen and the next thing you know he doesn’t have five minutes to call you and ask how you doing. Now that is confusing and I know that many of you have been in this situation. But today I will share with you the top five signs to tell if a man is in love with you or he is just playing around.

Eye Contact: Now this is very important at any relationship, not only romantic ones. If your guy doesn’t keep eye contact or you catch him constantly looking away that means he doesn’t have any interest on what you are saying -but what’s worst he doesn’t have any interest to even look at you.

Interested in You: I think the opposite of love is not hate, is indifference! and if a guy totally ignores you or he just calls you when he wants to make out, then i think you are living a lie.

Cuddling: I know that you hear all the time that men don’t like cuddling or showing any affection-and that can be true, if you are dating someone that doesn’t care about you. A man that really loves you will want to cuddle snuggle.

Want’s to spend time with you: A man that loves you want’s to spend as much time as he can with you. The word busy should’t be on his vocabulary.

Want’s you to meet his family: A guy that loves you, want’s everyone to know about you and future plans together. He is committed to you and is not afraid for his family to know that he has finally found the one.




3 Things You Should Know Before Marriage

Have you found that right person that makes your heart beat like never before? That makes you miss him/her without leaving the house yet? What you do when you find that right person you just want to spend every single day of your life in their company? Well, you marry them!

Marriage is the most difficult yet satisfying commitment you will ever make. It is a life time decision (or at least this is supposed to be) but of course every rule has exception. The important thing is to enter in a marriage with the idea that is going to last forever. If your partner cheats, gambles, hide things from you, hits you or anything of this genre then there’s nothing you can do except leave them.

Not everyone is going to be a good husband and father but there are things to consider in order to avoid marrying the ‘wrong person’ into thinking he/she is the right one. Love can blind everyone but it comes a time when you should use common sense and consider the real facts-believe me you don’t want to spend the rest of your life raising your kids alone without the help of your partner or get your heart broken simply because you were blindly in love.

Just married couple, holding hands and walking in nature
3 Things You Should Know Before Marrying Him/Her

1-The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior: I am not saying you should judge your partner based on his/her past relationship but if your partner have had like a dozen failed relationship than you must think good before entering in a marriage with her/him. What makes you think is going to be different with you? Does your partner have a bunch of kids from different partners? does your soon to be husband/wife have a bad relationships record? well these are questions you should ask yourself and take a decision after. Of course people change, but their behaviour hardly does, unless something dramatic happen to change their entire way of thinking.

2-How does your partner see marriage? Women enter marriage with the idea of having a beautiful family, a fairy tale life that is far away from reality at times, however men (at least most of them) see marriage as a way to have a free made to cook and clean for them. No matter what he says, after marriage things are going to change and he will expect you to do most of the chores.

3-What type of household did they grow up in? did their parents had a loving long lasting marriage or they barely saw each other-although i don’t believe that their parents marriage is going to affect yours in any way, for some it can be a good hint that they don’t  take marriage as seriously as they should.

How to Establish a Relationship


I have read and study many books that talk about relationships and one thing is for sure, relationships are hard work that require a lot of patience, understanding and tolerance.

Today I am focusing this article on intimate relationships, which in my opinion are the hardest – and everyone should learn how to make their relationship healthier and better.

In the beginning of every relationship, we are all excited, behave at our best and everything seem effortless-you want to spend as much time possible with your partner-but in the long run, things change.

Time will change things in any relationship but what you should do, is to make sure that time will change the relationship for better.

When You Are Starting a New Relationship is Important to:

Build: Build foundation. Every relationship should be founded in mutual respect and understanding. Know your boundaries and make sure you don’t ‘violet’ your partner’s space.

Explore: It is essential to explore your partner’s interest. You should focus and try to understand what makes your partner happy and what does not.

Establish: It took me awhile to learn this one. Whenever you make a mistake, don’t try to twist things around so you don’t have to apologize- instead say that you are sorry and make sure not to repeat it again. I know it is hard to say sorry, but if you want a healthy relationship that will last for more than three months, then saying ‘thank you’ and ‘I am sorry’ are the base for every relationship, not only love relationships.

Important Things to Recognize as Your Relationship Grows:

Relationships Change: It is inevitable; time will change your relationship and will change you as a couple also. You need to welcome the changes.

Check in Periodically: Most of us get lost in the rush of daily life. Going to work/school, following your hobbies, taking care of the kids and many other things that make life joyful -yet stressful at times-but setting all this aside and talking with your partner about difficult topics is what keeps a relationship going. If you don’t talk about difficult topics and try to find a solution as a couple, soon enough you will both drift apart.

What to Do When Conflict Arise:

I believe communication is the foundation of any successful relationship –and although it takes time to achieve a healthy and meaningful communication with your partner, it is not impossible. Talking freely with your partner is essential- not only for easy topics but hard topics also (such as family, love, marriage, sex and kids). The number one mistake most couples do is to forget the power of words! Instead of screaming and nagging learn to sit down and talk without raising your voice.

Understand Each Other Family Patterns: the family background is important when it comes to establishing a healthy relationship with your partner. In every family, conflicts are solved differently-therefore find out how problems were solved in your partner’s family and then talk to him of how things were solved in your family. Maybe you come from a family that wasn’t good at communication, while she/he comes from a family where they were very close to each other and would always talk about everything.

Establish an Atmosphere of Emotional Support: which means accept your partner’s differences and remember to yourself why you fall in love with him/her in the first place. Never enter an argument by attacking him/her! Instead approach the conflict with proves and strong arguments to why things are the way they are and what you both can do differently for things to be solved.

Discuss One Thing at a Time: I know it is very tempting to talk about all the problems at once but that will not help you solve any. Instead pick the topic based on priorities.

Really Listen: Being a good listener means: Don’t interrupt your partner when she/he talks! Make sure you understood properly what your partner had to say before giving your argument. Ask your partner about specific thing you might not have clear. It is better to ask, rather than add fuel to the fire.

Stop Trying to be Right: Would you rather be right or happy?



5 Romantic Things So Say to Your Boyfriend



Love is an awesome feeling that makes two souls come together as one. Love is even more perfect if your partner is indeed your soul mate. It is always best to give love to your partner with all your heart as this is the only way to really enjoy it. Life is short so live it with no regrets and love like there is no tomorrow. As much as we would like to be around those we love all the time, there always come things that separate us every now and then. It is at this particular time that your partner needs assurance that your love for them is still alive. You might not be a romantic but here are some romantic things to say to your boyfriend when you miss him.

>>>> When you kiss me you speak to my soul…Love is deep and your partner should know that what you two share goes beyond the heart. Affection and intimacy is important to any relationship. It is at this difficult time of inevitable distance, regardless of whether short or long, that you both get to step back and re-evaluate the state of your relationship. Saying such loving words at this time will have a big impact and secure your love.

>>>> We can sit on the porch all day without uttering a single word yet feel like we had the best conversation ever…Men are not as romantic as women but find other ways of expressing their love. Telling him that you know he loves you even though he doesn't say it out loud is a great relief to him. Distance poses a great risk and strain in relationships but letting your man know that you are secure and assured of his love would give him much comfort and peace. This is one of the romantic things to say to your boyfriend when you miss him.

>>>> I never knew the warmth of muscles until you embraced me…This is a very wise message that serves two purposes; to show love as well as feed his ego. Men can act macho and manly but the truth of the matter is that their ego needs to be fed every now and then. This makes more sense if these words come from the women they love. Your man needs to feel enough for you and this kind of message says it all for him.

>>>> Am drowning in your love and i sure don't want to be rescued…Men just like women sometimes become insecure of whether they are playing their part right hence the need to reassure. In this case, telling your partner that the impact of their love is more than they think it is very encouraging. This way, they get more eager and anxious to come back to you and also keep you in their minds all day long. The not wanting to be rescued part lets them know that you are comfortable in his love and that you're in it for the long run. This is also one of the romantic things to say to your boyfriend when you miss him.

>>>> Days might be long and disappointing but the assurance that you're mine makes the sun come up…Every one wants to be waited upon by the one they love. Texting the love of your life such a message lets him know that they are important and wanted in your life. Everyone needs to feel that they belong somewhere. Such a message lets him know that they have a home in the warmth of your heart. Who wouldn't look forward to coming home to such a loving woman?
These romantic things to say to your boyfriend when you miss him remind you that love indeed makes the world go round. The warm fuzzy feeling deep within is what makes you want to give more and more of your heart and soul. Of course beautiful things come with compromises and sacrifices. Distance is part of life but focusing on what you truly feel for your man will keep you strong. The phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" applies most in this case. With each passing day, minute or second your partner is away from you the more your heart grows fonder.

Add spice to your love life

After few years of relationship your love life loses the spice and flavor of initial romance and love. Both the hearts long to get feel the initial magic of love but with time things changes. I am sure you are also carving for the same spice in your love life. Let's check out how you can fall in love again and again with the same partner.Meet for a date: After marriage also couples should never forget the crazy lover inside. Do behave like a teenager lovers and meet up for a date. Get a gift for your partner that reminds her or him of old days of your relationship. Get Nostalgic and spend a beautiful romantic evening under an open sky, experience the fragrance of natural flowers and create a magic through candle light. Don't go by traditional things, play with your imagination and get the old charm of love back to your relationship.
  • Share your Fantasy: Speak to your partner regarding your fantasies and desire. I am sure your lover will be so happy to talk something apart from children , finance and career. When you share your desires for love-making with your lover, find a time when you are alone and distractions such as the computer or television are out of the way. When you share your desires for love-making with your lover, find a time when you are alone and distractions such as the computer or television are out of the way.
    • Be Romantic: You must understand that kissing, hugging and demonstrative shows of affection are not required only when you're in bed. Pull your partner aside any time through the day, for a hug or a full-on smooch.

    • Have fun, play games: Along with the routines and pressures of everyday life, things have probably become a tad serious. It's about time you loosened up and had some fun. And that includes the time when you're with your partner alone. So if you think your love life have become boring and colorless, then you really need to make it more exciting and fun. Find ways to giggle together and things to laugh about even when you're in bed. Sharing a naughty joke, tickling each other silly or try playing any game may be strip poker, you got to enjoy even if you lose the game.
    • Experiments: Don't be afraid to experiment. If your partner would like to get a little kinky (as long as it doesn't make you uncomfortable) or give some sex toys a try, go with the flow. You might surprise yourself and find you like it. If things have become predictable and you never have sex unless it's the last thing at night, jog the system a bit. Try during the noon on a weekend, or wake up a little earlier and lure your spouse into the shower. 
    • Interior of your bed room: Pamper yourself and your environment. Work together to make a beautiful, loving space for your love making time. It might only require rearranging furniture in your bedroom or other intimate space, getting rid of clutter helps. A passionate music can ignite passion for both of you. Candle light and fragrance of roses can convert a boring room to a romantic atmosphere. A little effort which in return could get that spark started again from the memories to kick-start the old libido.

    • Get her flowers or cook her favorite food: when you come back home get some flower for your beloved and attach a small romantic note with it. Prepare your partner's favorite food and surprise them. Place an ‘I love you' placard in his briefcase so he sees it and thinks of you as soon as he opens it up. Call each other up during the day, even if it's only for a couple of minutes, or leave cute messages on the voice mail.
    • Don't Ignore: Don't be be lazy and postpone doing something special to make your spouse feel a little happy. And never be selfish and only be a taker, give as much and more than the measure in which you receive. Don't assume too much that you know exactly what turns your partner on, ask occasionally if you can do something different and you might be surprised by the answer. Don't be guilty or be prudish or have preconceived notions of what's right or wrong. If you are okay with it, do it, don't wait till the end of the day when you're too tired and all you can think of is sleep.
    • Spend alone together: Make an effort to spend some time alone together. Don't feel bad about taking the occasional break without the kids along or enjoying some quiet time together. Take an initiative to celebrate special moments that you used to do during the initial time of your relationship. Take a little trouble to look good and stay fit. If we feel good about our bodies, it translates into a better performance in the bedroom too!
    • Pamper yourselves: It's also time for a little self-gratification. Give each other a massage . This will leave you feeling relaxed. When she's sick, take care of her just like she treats you when you're sick. Take over the household tasks and don't let her get out of bed if you can help it. Rejuvenate your mind by joining yoga classes or dance to each other's tune by enrolling in a salsa or ballroom dancing class.
    Never mind how old is your relationship, always try to spice it up with small gestures and never let die the child inside you. Undoubtedly, relationships constantly change and if you keep doing the same stuffs it will be boring. So be interesting, imaginative and fill your life with the spice of love and romance.


Kissing History

Pucking Up Through The Ages
Kissing: the intimate act used to express feelings o  f love, passion, affection, respect, friendship, greetings and many more. A kiss can vary widely in different cultures, for example, a kiss can be used in formal greetings, or ritual and traditional formalities, or for religious reasons, as well as being used as an intimate expression of love. But where did kissing come from? How has the act evolved over time?

 

Kissing Through History

Ancient Indian Kissing
The earliest evidence of kissing came from Indian Vedic Sanskrit texts that date back to around 1500 BC. In these texts there are descriptions of people kissing. However, while the texts don’t mention the word ‘kiss’, there are references to ‘licking’ and ‘drinking moisture of the lips’, which historians believe refers to the act of intimate kissing. There is also an epic Indian poem called ‘Mahabharata’ that describes the act of kissing on the lips as a sign of affection. The ‘Mahabharata’ was originally passed down orally for several hundred years, before being written down and recorded properly around 350 AD. It was also around this point in time when the Vatsyayana Kamasutra (better known as the Kama Sutra) was established. Considered to be the standard work on human sexual behaviors, the Karma Sutra included an entire section on the different ways of lavishing kisses on a lover.


Roman Empire Kissing
Kissing doesn’t really surface in the Western world until the days of the Roman Empire, where Romans would use kisses to greet family and friends, as well as express feelings of love, and to pay their respects to ruler’s by kissing their hand. The Romans had three differentcategories for kissing, ‘Osculum’ was a kiss on the cheek, ‘Basium’ was a kiss on the lips, and ‘Savolium’ was a deep kiss. The Romans are responsible for beginning out modern day traditions when it comes to kissing. In ancient Rome, a couple became betrothed by kissing passionately on the lips in front of a group of people. The term ‘sealed with a kiss’ also comes from ancient Rome, where were used like handshakes to seal legal and business agreements and even during political campaigns.
Religious Kissing History
In the early Christian Church, Christians would use kissing as a way to greet one another. This greeting, known as an ‘Osculum Pacis’, or holy kiss, was believed to transfer the spirit between the two people. It was also used to establish family bond between the members of the church and to strengthen the community, as well as separating Christians and non-Christians.
Kissing in the Middle Ages
In the Middle Ages, kissing was a demonstration of a person’s social standing.  Subjects of a King would kiss his ring, robe, hands or even the ground beneath his feet to show respect. This kind of respect was also shown toward the Pope. A kiss was also used as a greeting between feudal lords and vassals as a show of trust. It was also during this time that many men did not know how to read and write, so a kiss was used as a legal way to seal contracts, as it had been done in ancient Rome. An ‘X’ would be drawn on the line and kissed, making it legal. This symbol of a kiss has been carried over into modern day, with ‘X’ being written to represent a kiss.
Kissing Today
During the Industrial Revolution, the kiss became replaced by the handshake as a form of agreement between to people when it came to legal and business matters. By 1872, Charles Darwin had theorized that due to the global diversity and popularity of kissing, humans must possess an innate desire to want to connect with others in this way. Darwin surmised that kissing is rooted deep within our evolutionary past, but is influenced by our social-cultural traditions, rules and customs.
The term “French kiss” came into the English language around 1923 as an insult towards the French culture which was thought to be overly concerned with sex. In France, it’s called a tongue kiss or soul kiss because if done right, it feels as if two souls are merging.
Kissing occurs in most cultures around the world today, but there are many different views on what is appropriate when it comes to displays of affection. In Middle Eastern countries public displays of affection, including holding hands, cuddling and kissing can be punishable by law. In some Asian countries, while not illegal, kissing is considered a private activity, and PDA is frowned upon.
Kissing Conclusion
Scientists, scholars and anthropologists are divided over whether kissing is a learned or instinctual behaviour. There are also many theories behind where kissing evolved from, including when mothers orally passed chewed food to their infants during the weaning period, or that kissing evolved from prospective mates sniffing each other’s pheromones to check for biological compatibility. Another theory suggests it was used to judge a person as a potential mate. Whatever the reason for the development of kissing, it has come through history as a symbol and expression of human feelings. 

Add spice to your love life


After few years of relationship your love life loses the spice and flavor of initial romance and love. Both the hearts long to get feel the initial magic of love but with time things changes. I am sure you are also carving for the same spice in your love life. Let's check out how you can fall in love again and again with the same partner.
  • Meet for a date: After marriage also couples should never forget the crazy lover inside. Do behave like a teenager lovers and meet up for a date. Get a gift for your partner that reminds her or him of old days of your relationship. Get Nostalgic and spend a beautiful romantic evening under an open sky, experience the fragrance of natural flowers and create a magic through candle light. Don't go by traditional things, play with your imagination and get the old charm of love back to your relationship.
  • Share your Fantasy: Speak to your partner regarding your fantasies and desire. I am sure your lover will be so happy to talk something apart from children , finance and career. When you share your desires for love-making with your lover, find a time when you are alone and distractions such as the computer or television are out of the way. When you share your desires for love-making with your lover, find a time when you are alone and distractions such as the computer or television are out of the way.
  • Be Romantic: You must understand that kissing, hugging and demonstrative shows of affection are not required only when you're in bed. Pull your partner aside any time through the day, for a hug or a full-on smooch.
  • Have fun, play games: Along with the routines and pressures of everyday life, things have probably become a tad serious. It's about time you loosened up and had some fun. And that includes the time when you're with your partner alone. So if you think your love life have become boring and colorless, then you really need to make it more exciting and fun. Find ways to giggle together and things to laugh about even when you're in bed. Sharing a naughty joke, tickling each other silly or try playing any game may be strip poker, you got to enjoy even if you lose the game.
  • Experiments: Don't be afraid to experiment. If your partner would like to get a little kinky (as long as it doesn't make you uncomfortable) or give some sex toys a try, go with the flow. You might surprise yourself and find you like it. If things have become predictable and you never have sex unless it's the last thing at night, jog the system a bit. Try during the noon on a weekend, or wake up a little earlier and lure your spouse into the shower. 
  • Interior of your bed room: Pamper yourself and your environment. Work together to make a beautiful, loving space for your love making time. It might only require rearranging furniture in your bedroom or other intimate space, getting rid of clutter helps. A passionate music can ignite passion for both of you. Candle light and fragrance of roses can convert a boring room to a romantic atmosphere. A little effort which in return could get that spark started again from the memories to kick-start the old libido.
  • Get her flowers or cook her favorite food: when you come back home get some flower for your beloved and attach a small romantic note with it. Prepare your partner's favorite food and surprise them. Place an ‘I love you' placard in his briefcase so he sees it and thinks of you as soon as he opens it up. Call each other up during the day, even if it's only for a couple of minutes, or leave cute messages on the voice mail.
  • Don't Ignore: Don't be be lazy and postpone doing something special to make your spouse feel a little happy. And never be selfish and only be a taker, give as much and more than the measure in which you receive. Don't assume too much that you know exactly what turns your partner on, ask occasionally if you can do something different and you might be surprised by the answer. Don't be guilty or be prudish or have preconceived notions of what's right or wrong. If you are okay with it, do it, don't wait till the end of the day when you're too tired and all you can think of is sleep.
  • Spend alone together: Make an effort to spend some time alone together. Don't feel bad about taking the occasional break without the kids along or enjoying some quiet time together. Take an initiative to celebrate special moments that you used to do during the initial time of your relationship. Take a little trouble to look good and stay fit. If we feel good about our bodies, it translates into a better performance in the bedroom too!
  • Pamper yourselves: It's also time for a little self-gratification. Give each other a massage . This will leave you feeling relaxed. When she's sick, take care of her just like she treats you when you're sick. Take over the household tasks and don't let her get out of bed if you can help it. Rejuvenate your mind by joining yoga classes or dance to each other's tune by enrolling in a salsa or ballroom dancing class.
Never mind how old is your relationship, always try to spice it up with small gestures and never let die the child inside you. Undoubtedly, relationships constantly change and if you keep doing the same stuffs it will be boring. So be interesting, imaginative and fill your life with the spice of love and romance.

How to Find a Girlfriend in 5 Simple Steps

Want to know how to find a girlfriend?
Well if this is the case, then you're not alone. Right now, there are thousands even millions of guys who need a girlfriend to complete their lives. The problem is they don't have a clue about how to get one.
Fortunately there is a way YOU can find that special someone to complete your life. In this article, you'll discover a simple five step system you can use to get a girlfriend.
Step 1- Work on your attraction skills
Before you can even think about finding a girlfriend, it's important to work on your core personality and pick up skills. The logic behind this is to be able to attract that perfect woman once you meet her. So during the process of meeting women, you should work on displaying the characteristics which they'll find attractive.
For instance, you should focus (and try to improve) on the following things:
o Building confidence
o Approaching women
o Conversation skills
o How to build chemistry and rapport
o Seduction skills
Step 2- Know what you want
While you're out meeting women it's important to figure out "the type" you really want. Just like any other goal in your life it's simple to achieve your desired outcome if you have a clear understanding of what you want.
So if you want to learn how to find a girlfriend, then you should think about the type of woman you're looking for. Here are some things to consider:
o Age
o Race
o Body type
o Hair color
o Personality
o Education
o Level of intelligence
o Social Background
Step 3- Go to the right places
While this might seem simplistic, the best way to find your ideal woman is to go where she'll be. In the last step, you learned how to discover your perfect girlfriend. Since you know what she's like, you'll have a clear picture of her personality and interests.
My advice is to simply go to the places where she hangs out. For instance, if you want an athletic girl, then you should look at gyms and other athletic events.
Step 4- Approach and date different woman
The worst thing you can do is to seriously date the FIRST woman who pays attention to you. Instead you should make it a point to date different women till you find one that's perfect for you. As a result, you should make it a point to approach (and date) every woman who find interesting in your life.
By dating lots of women you'll develop a realistic view of what you really want from a girlfriend. Only after you've seen what you DON'T want, will you develop an idea of the perfect girlfriend.
Step 5- Select a girlfriend
The last step is simple. Once you've dated for awhile, you'll start to develop strong feelings for one particular woman. Obviously once you *click* with one particular women, you can make her your girlfriend.
Trying to discover how to find a girlfriend is a hard for many guys. The good news is it's not difficult if you know the right system. If you pay close attention (and implement) the five steps I discussed in this article, you'll discover it's easy to find that perfect girl.